I am making my comments to all the comments b/c I have been in such a relationship and have a kid or kids/ and lived the life of luxury like Tori. No. one person is yourself and you clearly don't feel good about yourself so you can really make clear decisions. Please change therapists. I have the best in brentwood that is a child therapist but helped me. Please ..see him. he has been on CNN GMA etc...
It doesn't matter now what TORI or DEAN did they both need to think of the kids first and that means they should not be together and both get back to work and kids come first.ITs clear kids need the attention and I appreciate parent and kid activity but I would know this and bet money on this that you should not do nail art with your son. I would know that your son will get picked on. I know this I have a son. so I would focus on Mind craft.
That is horrible! You should be ashamed to say that about a women let alone someone going through such pain. Either you where abused or very young and immature.
That is beyond rude. NO one is prefect except G D and maybe some other people should look at there own nose Its not little.
Lets stop thinking about Tori, Dean or his ex-ex...all six kids need to be thought of before all 3 of them. SO everyone needs to stop putting themselves first and put the kids first. SOOOOO all six kids should be in or go to kids therapy when ready. DEAN needs to be held responsible and if I was both ex's...or soon to be ex's I would make sure he gets a real job and start paying for kids and take kids on weekends and or every other week...and TORI when he takes the kids you go to your new therapist and start feeling good about your self. You are a very pretty lovely lady that is smart . I would get it together without him and write a book to help other women get through this and I would start asking all your friends and family for help with kids. Perhaps once you get yourself together he will have gotten help for his mental and addictive problems. My father and brother are both addicts and both treated there ex's bad and kids bad and all they did is want the attention on themselves.
TORI please get a different counselor and get him out of the house. I have a child and thought the way Tori does now! I needed my ex to help out at the house and the kids miss him and beg for dad to come back. Bottomline that is wrong, they can feel the tension and know this is wrong and will hold it again you in the future. Tori I be is wrong and even has the money to get help to care for the kids so she doesn't need him in the house. They both clearly need separate therapy NOT marriage counseling. He is manipulating both Tori and the counselor. I moved my family from a big beautiful house in TO and getting massages at Bev Wilshire and driving the newest luxury cars and wearing designer clothes and bags to living in a small condo in woodland hills so I have self respect. I screwed up my kids life allowing the dad back in the house a couple times and showing him that I was weak and allow verbal abuse. He now tells me he doesn't understand why I did that. She is a women and mother and she needs to be strong and demand he get an apt. of his own and she should file for legal separation and demand him to take responsibility of his own. Should he not get help then he can live in his car. That is what my ex did. Show your kids how not to be used and I can't believe your therapist is falling for his bull shit. I understand he stated he wanted to commit suicide isn't a joke but its very clear he did that and said that for the focus to turn from her crying to him. He is one sick human and everyone deserves to be forgiven. BUT that doesn't mean he moves back. TORI U ARE THE ONE BEING SELFISH your kids don't need him they need one healthy parent. Since he isn't you need to pull it together go back and work and get a nanny and put your kids in childcare. YOU NEED TO FORGIVE YOUR MOM AND ask her for help i.e. nanny, housekeeper etc. and go back to work and think about your kids first instead of DEAN the sick man. AND STOP PAYING FOR HIM. trust me ..if he can go off and be a degenerate then he can also care for himself. trust me 3 months in a luxury rehab flirting with girls there and people at coffee shops isn't working. A man that was in remorse wouldn't even talk to one person except his family and the counselor.